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I feel this.
This makes a lot of sense!! and we
also had to emotionally grow faster!!!
Holy 🤯! This perfectly sums it up. I guess I was practically married to my single mum too. Oh god 😱
It's called emotional incest
Population collapse
Stop explaining yourself ,it makes this decision look like it's not valid enough without explanation . Having kids is just hard hard work that doesn't pay off anymore for somebody like you in this day and age. Problem of explanation solved.
Nobody gives a 💩 if you want kids or not
Look on the bright side; it sounds like she’s a pretty great partner.
My therapist told me my dad was my man and that’s why I have commitment issues 😂😂😂 so I hear ya
I’ve seen the term ‘enmeshment’ used for that and that’s def the case w my single mother and me. Also don’t want kids. See what she went through – no thank you!
I became a single mother because I trusted men and my family was too busy bullying me and mistreating me instead of teaching me to value myself and how to vet men.
Stop listening to "therapist". Second go and live your life. Merry nice man , cook and clean the house and in 10 years from now you can be absolutely happy wife 😉
First therapist – You wanted to live your own life. Nothing wrong with that.
Second therapist – You seem to not want to be tied down with a man or a child.
Third therapist – You're afraid of the responsibility.
Oh wow, she’s still on the Internet.
Whoa. Never thought about it that way. I was so mature at a young age and desired to be an adult a very long time before I was even close. Gramma said I was 16 when i was born. Single mom since I was 7. She remarried when I was 17. Oldest of 3. I didn't want kids until I was getting close to 30 and my husband's cousins were having babies. I am a mom… Somewhat successfully! He is special needs. Before I even knew that, I could only handle the one child. I am on my fourth serious relationship (second marriage). The others did not end because of me, honestly… One of the men passed away, but it wasn't a healthy relationship.
I credit my very close relationship and leaning on Jesus to the success I am currently experiencing! So fulfilling! It can be done with a healthy man (the monogamy and loyalty). Caring for a helpless child that is a part of you is VERY different than being the emotional support for a parent. I hope that you will have or build on your relationship with Jesus and you're able to have a healthy family one day! ❤
Wow!!! This makes sense now. Totally makes sense.
My therapist told me I raised my mother. I was just telling my bf the other day how I’m tired of being emotionally responsible for her. Spent my life dialing my own emotions back because she’s so neurotic.