The Big Little Pleasures that are actually not so little – Positive Provocations

“Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” ~ Robert Brault

A few months back, my daughter had a sudden fainting one night, when her eyes were open but her body was not responding. She was crying but could not speak what was happening to her. And moments before that we were planning outfits for her week in college. We were giggling and laughing, while trying on clothes and then suddenly as she was talking to me, she just lay down and that was her state.

We all rushed her to the hospital at 11 pm that night. All the while I was trying to hold it together and my mind kept trying to find an explanation to her condition logically.

What followed was a list of endless tests, doctor visits, and her being in the ICU. I could not get myself to leave her alone there although she is 17, for me she is always my baby. But I had to, because, well, ICU protocol. I paced awake in the waiting area all night. By then thankfully she had begun to respond normally.

They needed to determine the cause of what is medically called syncope (SINK-a-pee) another word for fainting or passing out.

It took 3 days for the final diagnosis, which was a clogged-up ear that had led to an inner ear imbalance. This then needed a procedure to clear up.

The 3–4 days in the hospital and then the next few days where the outpatient procedures needed to be done, still feel like a blur because all else in life took a back seat. Even something as basic as sleep, food and taking a shower. All I was focusing on was her recovery.

After the last procedure when I brought my daughter home, the first thing she said was, “Mom, it’s so good to be back home and sleep in my own bed, have your cooking, hug you and just live.” I couldn’t agree with her more! The big little pleasures.

In our everyday lives, we don’t pay so much attention to life’s little pleasures. The food we have, the comfortable bed we sleep in, the ease we feel in our pajamas, the cuddles with our loved ones, good health, peace of mind.

Honestly, this whole episode taught me:

1. To Appreciate the Present Moment

To savor the present and find joy in everyday experiences, rather than constantly striving for what’s next. Understanding that happiness isn’t only found in big achievements or distant goals but is also woven into little daily routines and interactions, which are not so little.

2. To be more grateful

I recognized that the “little things” which are not so little need to be appreciated daily. To appreciate small blessings, like a sunset, a conversation with a friend, or a warm cup of coffee. This gratitude becomes a habit that helps me stay resilient and content, even in difficult times.

3. To Understand Life’s True Priorities

While society frequently highlights material success or public recognition, this wisdom teaches us that relationships, simple pleasures, and personal experiences are often the real sources of happiness. This shift in priorities helps me to lead a more authentic life.

4. To Appreciate all Relationships

During this trying time, I saw how friends and family came to offer their love and support. Some who I have not seen in a while or have unknowingly ignored. Just a little phone call from a cousin or a visit from an aunt helped to keep us grounded and our spirits high.

In Conclusion

I think true personal growth happens when we go through something difficult, but only if we are willing to find meaning and value in our otherwise everyday moments. These big little pleasures ground us. By embracing these lessons, we can create a life that feels purposeful, peaceful, and deeply satisfying no matter what is going on in life.

>>What are your Big Little Pleasures? Share in the comments. Let’s spread the good vibes 💌

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