We all remember where we were when we first heard a snippet of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s essay, “We should all be feminists,” on Beyoncé’s widely ...
You have probably read a few different articles on lesbianism, but I bet you have not seen the exclusively ‘Naija’ version. That is why I’m here, to ...
I’m new to Sonoma County and actively in pursuit of new friends, new community, and a new sense of belonging. After 17 years of ...
As I explained in my blog about IFS-informed Dating and Dating The Day Democracy Died, I learned a ton about myself and my own ...
When I embarked upon my online dating experiment in January 2021 and went on about thirty first dates, I took advantage of the ...
I was recently listening to one of my favorite podcasts, couples therapist Esther Perel’s Where Shall We Begin. In this episode, ...
I’ve been overwhelmed by what’s going on in our country right now and feeling helpless and speechless, while I sort out my own ...
As my partner Jeff Rediger and I just finished writing about in our book Relationsick, compassion might not seem like a health ...
Before the pandemic, I’d been intentionally single because I was in a phase of trauma healing recovery that needed me to focus on ...