
All of us desire a clean, organized, and streamlined home. So why is it so challenging to keep our home as we desire it to be?
As a woman over 60, I can attest to the challenges of decluttering my own home. Over the years, I have also heard from countless friends that they, too, are beset with similar difficulties.
From my personal experiences to the research I’ve conducted on self-love and self-care for my books, articles, and videos, I’ve discovered that the difficulty of keeping our homes as clean, organized, and streamlined as we would like is more complex than you would initially think.
What gets in the way are not external obstacles but a variety of emotional, physical, and practical factors that are not always easy to spot.
In the final article and video of my exclusive series for Sixty and Me readers, “Life Hacks for Women Over 60,” we will explore 10 ways to overcome the physical and emotional challenges of streamlining and organizing your home.
If you have missed the previous articles in this series, please find them here:
Part 1: 10 Essential Life Hacks for Women Over 60
Part 2: How to Use Journaling as a Life Hack
Part 3: 10 Essential Life Hacks for Self-Love and Self-Care
Part 4: 10 Life Hacks to Demystify Technology for Women Over 60
Part 5: 10 Essential Lifestyle Hacks for Organizing Your Home
What Catches People Off Guard
Decluttering and organizing your living space creates a more manageable and stress-free environment. It can also be a cathartic process, bringing a sense of calm, emotional balance, and order.
As good as this sounds, the truth is that streamlining and organizing your home can be more taxing on you emotionally than physically.
For one, you are forced to go through personal items that may elicit emotions from the past. You are also faced with how much you may have unconsciously procrastinated, leaving areas of your home cluttered, dirty, and unkept.
All of this can catch many people off guard, and before you know it, you spiral into a state of inner shame, guilt, and frustration rather than cleaning your home.
10 Lifestyle Hacks for Decluttering and Organizing Your Home
Cleaning your home is more than just a chore.
With the proper mindset, you can turn this into a transformative process that significantly enhances the quality of your lifestyle.
Here are 10 tips that can turn streamlining and organizing your home from a challenge into an uplifting and empowering experience:
Emotional Attachment
Any of us 60 and over likely have accumulated many belongings with sentimental value. Letting go of these items can feel like losing a part of our history or memories. But letting them go can liberate us from the past and open us up to new ways of living and loving life in the present.
Physical Limitations
Age-related physical limitations can make organizing and decluttering physically challenging. However, these can be overcome by allowing ourselves to be helped by trusted professionals.
Overwhelm and Decision Fatigue
The sheer volume of items to sort through and decisions to be made can be overwhelming, leading to procrastination or avoidance. Again, this comes down to asking for help from family, friends, or hiring an organizational expert. Remember, asking for help is not a sign of weakness but a show of inner strength.
Lifestyle Changes
When we hit 60 and over, we are often faced with significant lifestyle changes such as retirement, children moving out, or the loss of a partner. This can make organizing and downsizing emotionally and logistically challenging. But what if you decided to embrace a new lifestyle? When you stop resisting change and welcome it as a chance to experience something new, you can invigorate yourself into taking inspired action.
Technological Challenges
Incorporating technology as an organizational tool can be daunting for those who are not tech-savvy. Research technology-based options for home organization and seek guidance from a tech-support consultant.
Maintaining Changes
Maintaining a decluttered and organized space can be challenging, especially if old habits are deeply ingrained. Create a schedule and be sure to reward yourself for sticking to it.
Financial Concerns
There may be concerns about wasting resources by getting rid of expensive items that could be ‘useful someday’. Look at selling items that still hold monetary value or giving them away to an heir.
Changing Tastes and Priorities
It can be difficult to recognize your evolving tastes and needs. Therefore, align your current living space with these changes by taking the necessary time for introspection and journaling.
Social Expectations
There can be pressure to maintain a home that meets family or societal expectations. This might conflict with personal desires for simplicity and minimalism, so honor yourself first and foremost.
Letting Go of the Past
Organizing and decluttering can sometimes feel like closing a chapter on one’s life, which can be emotionally challenging. Turn this into an experience that celebrates and honors your past.
It’s an Inner Journey
Streamlining and organizing your home goes beyond decluttering a physical space. This is an inner journey that is both emotional and psychological.
It involves making peace with letting go, adapting to physical and lifestyle changes, and redefining one’s living space to suit current needs and desires.
When you turn cleaning and organizing from a chore into an act of self-love, it becomes part of your self-care routine.
I invite you to join me in the video where I will share three thought-provoking journal prompts to help you integrate what you are learning.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
What challenges have you had with decluttering your living space? How did you overcome them?